I know adopting would be the most wonderful thing, but I also know that it is very selfish of me to adopt at this point in my life. Emotionally and financially, I am not ready. It would be mighty mighty selfish of me to bring a child in my life when I know I cannot commit to her 100%! I hope someday soon, I'd be ready but for now, I can just go about dreaming and working my way to be ready for the child that will borne from my heart.
I came across this video about what parents say about their experience with adoption. I found the clip to be very informative and not preachy, so I hope you enjoy it too.
To all the parents out there who chose to share their home with children not of their blood, Cheers to you!